Sunday, October 30, 2011

Blog Love

I don't have a huge blogroll, I just don't have to time to pour over dozens and dozens of blogs. I could, but I probably wouldn't remember who's was who's and comment and all that. But I really do love reading them, they come in all shapes and sizes. Meeting different needs and interests and it's just fascinating.

I wanted to highlight a couple blogs for ya and have you check them out (when you have time!)

This girl is blogging from Haiti. She's there teaching missionary kids and serving along side them. Her posts are beautiful and leave you wanting for more.

This Mama of 6 is like the homeschooling guru if I ever saw one. She's honest, and inspiring. And she documents herself getting into shape, she's amazing!

This Mama writes beautifully, has awesome pictures and shares a lot about her youngest son and his struggle with Celiac disease. You will always be encouraged and challenged after you read her stuff. Her daughter also has a great blog, and does blog design as well!

She is a worship pastor's wife (yay!) has two adorable children and is so honest, and real and seriously...I love every one of her posts!!

This blog is a newer one for me, she has an incredible story that inspired an incredible ministry....go check it out!

There are dozens more I love, go click on the tab "Blogs I Follow" to see  few more!

Saturday, October 29, 2011

Trunk or Treat

I love Trunk or Treat
Church parking lot lined with cars, trunks open decorated in everything you could ever imagine.
Live music with the youth band
Free food
Free candy
Open to the whole community

My favorite trunks this year were:

A "barnyard" trunk...hay bales, a huge wooden barn with animals and the dad was dressed like a cowboy and the Mom had an awesome square-dancing dress on. It was awesome!

A few Star Wars trunks, one with "shoot the Sith Lord" haha

Oregon Ducks trunks, one had a mini pool with ducks in it and you got to pick one, and depending on the mark on the bottom you could get more than one piece of candy!

A trunk with adorable little old ladies at it, with their red hats and purple shirts passing out gobs of candy.

And on and on and on.

Here are a few pictures of my kiddos and friends!
Despite all having yucky colds, they did well. They just don't look too thrilled :)

Christian, Camden and Jack :)

My friend has fraternal twin girls 12 days younger than the cute are they!?!?

What 3 year old boy doesn't love a jumphouse?!

And Christian is dog tired. Hehehe

Thursday, October 27, 2011


It's that time of year when the changing of the season is quite drastic.
Some seasons come and go quickly, before you even realize it.

Autumn is slow here.
 First you see a few leaves changing on the tops of trees...
The next week the entire tree has turned color. From a rich Oregon green to a deep red, burnt orange, Peeps yellow.

And they fall, crunch beneath your feet.

Trees are bare. Cold. Seemingly lifeless.

The amazing thing is, we all know that in a few short months these same trees will perk up with little buds of greens and pinks and yellows and new life will branch out, once again staking it's claim until the next Autumn rolls around...

I see changes in more than just the trees these days.

I see changes in my Jack. He is learning so much at school, and at home. The words he says, the things that run through his little brain. They all show me he is growing, changing. I can't hold him tight enough. Pray for him hard enough.

The babies. Every day there are doing something new. Every day their baby like features and mannerisms change and I'm grasping on to these moments because they are fleeting fast....

Come May I will have been married to the love of my life for 9 years. Our marriage is changing. It's deeper, it's fuller, it''s hard to explain.

It's what my Mom said would happen.
It just gets better every day. I love him more every day.

This "season" of our life has been the most difficult of my life.

Starting really, back with the miscarriage. That moment was a marker in the ground.
The difficult first weeks and months really.

His Mom's fall and subsequent health issues.
It's been rough.

But when I take note of these things which we have walked through and continue to walk through there is something quite obvious to me.
My outlook. My heart. My focus.

It's on Him.
I have peace.
I have this joy that is unexplainable.

In reading One Thousand Gifts by Ann Voskamp, I see things differently.
It's challenged my core, to the deepest.

What He did on the cross was enough.
I don't deserve anything else.
That should be enough for me.

This shift in thinking, it pokes and prods and digs deep. It's cleanses.
It removes the dead, scrapes it away and in life emerges.
New focus, new's been drastic in my heart. It brings me to my knees.

I'm forever learning. Forever growing, forever changing...just like the constant changing of season.

This next part is hard for me. But I really want to be open and vulnerable. I've had so many e-mails thanking me for being so, so I want to continue.
Maybe you need to read it too.

There is something I have held on to. I have not been ready to change. I have not been ready to let go. And it's going to eat me alive if I don't deal with it.

I have to forgive.

I am one who loves justice. I want to see justice. I want people to know how bad they've hurt. Their actions and choices, how they have affected so many.
Caused so much pain.
I want to know that they know that.
 That's not my place. I know.

Honestly, it is so hard for me. Letting go when I feel so wronged and hurt over and over after countless attempts on my part to show grace and compassion and go out of my way to love. Was I loving for real? What were my motives? Because I had to show love?

 I was told to show love? yes.
If I strip it all away. yes.

Steps. I'm taking them. I want to learn how to forgive so that I can live fully. Nothing hiding in the corner. And I want to do it right, do it real. For good. I am ready for the next season, I am ready to move past this one.

To shake off the dead and see what springs forth.

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Oh hey! has been way too long.
You'll know why in a bit.

Before I fill ya in...if any of you are interested in purchasing something I highlighted in a giveaway, email me at and I can get you in touch!

So....let's see

We took a little day trip, just to get out of town.
It was the best family trip we have had since we took Jack to the Zoo and I was 20 weeks pregnant. It was near perfect.

I helped host my little sister's bridal shower.
It was so much fun!!
She's so beautiful.

Sickness has stuck again.
Actually it never left.

All 3 boys were sick.
All got better.
Trev got the flu.
He got better and then the boys got colds again.
Jack and Camden got better, Christian did not.
Christian developed walking pneumonia, got on antibiotics.
Jack got a cold again.
Shared with Camden.
Who shared with Christian. So Christian is still taking antibiotics for the walking pneumonia and now has a cold on top of that.
It's been over a month now that we had everyone healthy and it's only October.

I'm in week 2 of my couch to 5k training and it's soooo cold in the mornings, but I am feeling good!
Dropped another 2 1/2 pounds!

I just feel so out of the loop, with all the sickies and some family stuff....just kind of taking an unintentional break.

Hopefully that will change soon!
Thanks for hangin in!
My bear

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Little Wagon Bleu Winner!

 The winner of the Little Wagon Bleu giveaway is:
True Random Number Generator  

Congrats to:

Amber anderson said...
I am a Facebook fan!
October 15, 2011 8:13 AM

Thank you to everyone who entered! I will be doing a re-cap later this weekend! :)

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

Beauticontrol Winner

Winner of the Beauticontrol giveaway is MJ with comment number 20!
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Congrats! Contact me to claim your prize!
There is one more giveaway still going, until tomorrow night! Click here!

Monday, October 17, 2011

Miscellany Monday

1) Nothing cuter than Superman playing cars. We did have a rough moment earlier in the day when he realized that even with his cape on, he couldn't fly.

2) My birthday is a month from today. Just sayin'

3) I have two giveaways going. One ends tonight and the other ends Wednesday!!

4) Babies are still sick, coughs keeping them up at night. I've done the nasal saline, Tylenol, booger sucker outer, humidifier, Vick's on the feet and chest etc etc...any other ideas???

5) We had a "pink party" with a bunch of my Mom's friends (there were 22 of us!!), just to celebrate life and her and remind everyone to do your self exams!! Doctor didn't catch it, mammogram didn't catch it, ultrasound didn't catch it until my Mom showed them where she was feeling the it's up to you!!

6) Did I mention we will be here next month? Oh...well, we will :)

Disney's Grand Californian Hotel and Spa

7) I've used this program before when starting running again from scratch, and I had great results. So, I started today again! I'm excited :)

8) My sister and I are making Thanksgiving dinner for our family this year. First time ever. I've been searching Pinterest like crazy for fun ideas, I am so excited!!! Look for me there!

9) Something I am really thankful for is that our home is a home filled with joy. We have stress, we have really hard days, we have really bad days. We have tears, we have tantrums and time-outs (adults and children alike), we have long days, we are dealing with 3 busy boys, life in the ministry, cancer in the family, finances etc etc etc. But above all, we are thankful, we are joyful and our home is a haven. And I love that. I love that we have perspective and that we are thankful. When someone tells you they need to hang out at your house more often because it's the "fun house" and yet you have toys and dishes everywhere, and life is know you're doing something right.

Happy Monday!

Saturday, October 15, 2011

Pregnancy And Infant Loss Remembrance Day

I could think of 10
10 of my friends
have had a miscarriage
And a few of them have had more than one
And there could be others that I don't even know about.
Just in my group of friends.

It is definitely a hard thing to explain to someone who hasn't miscarried.
The connection you feel to someone you haven't met.
The loss of something that you kind of never had...
a very strange thing.
I didn't get it, until I had miscarried.

We got to see our little one's heartbeat, it was beating away.
I'm thankful we did see that, but it made it that much harder.

I believe when we get to heaven we are going to meet that little one.
I believe life starts at conception, at that very moment.
And so yes, there is a little person waiting for us.
And that makes me smile.

The women I know who have lost, they are the full spectrum.
Some never did see the heartbeat
Some carried almost full term
Some even had their babies...
Either way, it's something you will always carry with you.

I wanted something tangible to remember this little one by, so soon after the miscarriage I got this necklace.
And it came with this little poem...

My little one
You have left us too soon
Though my body can no longer hold you
I hold you forever in my heart
As precious and beautiful as this flower caught in time
A mother's love does not forget

Today we remember
I lit a little candle today, and hugged my boys extra tight

Little Wagon Bleu Giveaway

Some people are just crafty.
I am not.
But I have crafty friends!!

One of my dear friends Keri has a little shop called
Little Wagon Bleu
Isn't that the cutest name ever?!?!

She makes journals, recipe books, planners, baby books, wedding guest books, small notebooks, scripture blocks, autograph books for Disneyland etc etc etc!!!

Here are a few of her items:

Small notebook
Datebook, and the actual planner inside is refillable!
Recipe book!!


Scripture block. It's a magnetic board, the flower is a magnet and there are extra scripture cards on the back side!

And this is just a sample of what she does/can do!

She is still working on getting her new website up and running, but she IS taking orders!

Journals run from $20-$30 dollars, depending on what you want.
Since everything is customizable it prices vary.
Date books are $40, but reusable
Small notebooks are $6.50
Etc :)

If you are interested in purchasing something, contact me and I can put you through to her until her website is all fixed!

Here is what I am giving away today!

Totally cute journal, with lined paper inside and two dividers with pockets!

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Giveaway ends Wednesday the 19th at 8:00pm

Ergo Teething Pads Winner!

Winner of the Ergo Teething Pads is

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Yay Samantha!!! Email me by tomorrow morning to claim your prize!! :)

Thursday, October 13, 2011

BeautiControl Giveaway!

Have you heard of BeautiControl?
This is an incredible line of skin care products that truly work!
It's skin care, bath and body, makeup and men's care!

When I was pregnant a friend of mine who sells this came over and pampered me and a few friends, and then I started using the face system just before the babies were born.
It did wonders.
Then I ran out, and I put it off and my skin got bad again.
And then about 2 weeks ago I started using it again.
Wow. A visible difference in just two weeks. It looks better and feels better!
Face Lift Line

I am super picky about my skincare items, and I don't buy just anything.
 Plus, I still struggle with breakouts.
This stuff not only smells amazing, and makes my skin feel incredibly soft, but it does it's job.

They have a huge line that you will have to check out, just go over to their website and browse around! You can see if there is a consultant in your area and host a spa party!!!

Today I am giving away a Chocolate Indulgence Kit!
Um, yummy.

It includes
* dark chocolate espresso exfoliating body wash
*extreme repair hand creme
*white chocolate peppermint instant manicure
all in a cute little bag!

This is valued at

Who doesn't want to be pampered!? Especially by stuff that works and smells amazing too!

Here is how you can win!

Mandatory Entry:

Be a Google follower and let me know in a comment! Easy!

Additional Entries: (leave a separate comment for each one)

Follow my page on Facebook (link is on the column to your right)

Follow me on twitter (link is on the right)

Go to Beauticontrol's Website and tell me what other product you are interested in!

This giveaway ends Monday night at 8:00pm!
Dont' forget you can still enter this giveaway!

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

Dabrowski Designs

I just wanted to take a moment and share with you about

My Mom was looking for some hats to wear while she is going through chemo. We contacted Lisa through her website and were able to purchase several items!

Lisa hand paints and embellishes hats and beanies. She also makes adorable headbands and flowers for your hair!

They are adorable. And they fit any head size! There are so many options to choose from, including Duck and Beaver hats!! So fun!

She was incredible gracious, allowing us to have a little party and try on all sorts of hats. And in the end, my Mom, her best friend and myself ended up with several!

Take a second to head over to Lisa's site and let her know if you'd like to order a hat for yourself or somebody you love!

Here is MY hat!

Some other designs....
South Medford Panthers!

How cute is this?!

One of many flower headbands...

Hello cute snowboarding chick!!

For Breast Cancer Awareness!

Beaver or Duck!

Just several of the cadets!

All pictures are property of Dabrowski Designs

8 Months Old

The littlest of my men are 8 months old now.
The coolest part of this is that from here on out I can really really remember Jack, what he looked like and what he did, ate, drank, slept etc.
So that just makes it all the more fun!!
We don't have a well baby check up until next month, so no official stats. But here are what the boys are up to!


Camden sleeps amazingly. He goes to bed around 6pm and sleeps until 6:00am or later. To keep them on the same schedule I usually have to wake Camden up!
I don't let them sleep past 7:00am for schedule purposes.
He cut his first tooth on October 8th and his second one is almost through!! No wonder he hasn't been eating much. A little fussy, and not interested in eating and super sleepy. But otherwise he's done great!
He hates being on his tummy. He rolls over and then just gets really really mad. He is no where near becoming mobile haha! He is sitting much better, can do like 10-15 minutes at a time, but still isn't totally to be trusted  :) He loves pears and oatmeal and bananas and peas.
Will tolerate green beans, pumpkin and carrots.
He is in 6-9 month clothes now and I can't wait to see what he weighs next month!!
He is a little flirt and super smiley.
He is definitley the more laid back, but at the same time wants to be held.
He always wakes up happy.
We've been having him nap in Jack's room, just to free up our room and sometimes his nap coincides with Jack's and they've done great. Plus I think it's adorable, the two of them napping in the same room.
Someday they'll have little sleepovers in their big brothers room :)


Christian goes to bed the same time Camden does, but he still has mornings he wakes at 4:00am and then cries for a long time before going back to sleep until 6:00am. I have a rule where we do not go in their room until 6:00am, no matter what.
I know they are fine (if I didn't think so I would go check) but they are safe and just need sleep!
He is everywhere. Crawling all over, pulling himself up to a stand on everything he can. Problem is, then he just lets go! We've had a couple bonks already, and I know there will be more to come. His adventurous nature far outweighs his skill level at this point :) This week he started pulling himself up in his crib, but he is getting stuck.  So, he is having a hard time sleeping.  Hopefully soon he'll get back on track.
He can go from the crawling position to sitting and he just started clapping Monday!
He also says "mama" and associates it with me. It was the best feeling ever when he started reaching for me and saying that!
He loves food. He will eat any and all of it. Doesn't matter what it is!
He is in 3-6 month clothes still, unless it's Carter's brand...then it's 6 months. He is lonnnng and skinny!
He has the best laugh and he is following Jack everywhere, wanting to play with his toys.
So, Jack is learning to share with his brothers and be kind....not always an easy task. But because Christian can follow him around, they have a little bond forming :)

They really are happy, great babies and I am so excited for the months to come.
We are starting sign language and using sippy cups.

Unfortunately, it looks like they have another cold. Jack gave it to them, and I'm sure with preschool and Sunday school he is just getting slathered with nasty germs. Sigh.

We've said goodbye to the swings, and bouncer chairs and hello to lots of toys and cleaner floors.

They are the most beautiful little boys I have ever seen.

So without further ado.....

Oh wait, here are a few of Jack at 8 months. Yeah, adorable I know.

I've been doing these "monthly chair pictures" for...well, 8 months now. And this by far was the hardest haha! These are quite comical.

Next time I need backup

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

My Birthday Present (early)

You probably know by now I love

I got my first piece as a Mother's Day gift after the littles were born.

And I just got my second piece in the mail a few days ago, and early birthday gift!
I had a gift certificate (because they featured my picture on their blog!)
and they were having a sale!!

I recently finished this book
and I wanted something tangible, visible for me to see and remember to always give thanks
in all things

So this is what I got

I love love love it

for some reason my arms look extra hairy in this...i am not an ape i promise

Giveaway #3 Ergo Accessory

Do you have an Ergo carrier?

You know how the little ones love to suck/chew on those straps??!!

Well, Ergo sells little teething or sucking pads to protect your straps and lengthen the life of your Ergo.
 But they are spendy. ($14-20 a pair!!)
And they plain and boring.

Trev with the black Ergo and awesome teething pads!

Camden in the brown Ergo with super cute sucking pads!
How about some totally cute strap covers (aka sucking pads) to slip on your Ergo?!

If you don't have an Ergo, you probably know someone who does. They are the best and healthiest way to carry your child around! It is the very best for their spine and leg development.
 Check our their website!

These are washable
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If you have an Ergo, let me know and tell me what color you have!

If you know someone who has an Ergo that you would give these to, let me know!

You have until Friday Night at 8pm to enter!

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